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As a Gemini, I feel like I have a lot of emotional baggage that I carry around with me. I am notorious for being indecisive and unpredictable, but what most people don't know is that deep down, I am also very vulnerable when it comes to matters of the heart. This is the two-fold pain of a Gemini: the constant struggle between my head and my heart, and the fear of getting hurt.
One song that really resonates with me as a Gemini is "Stop Crying Your Heart Out" by Oasis. The lyrics capture the rawness and intensity of heartbreak, while also speaking to the fleeting nature of emotions:
"Hold on, hold on Don't be scared, you'll never change what's been and gone May your smile shine on, don't be scared Your destiny may keep you warm"
This song reminds me that even though heartbreak is painful, it's also a natural part of life. We can't change what's already happened, but we can choose how we respond to it. We can choose to let the pain consume us, or we can choose to move on and find happiness again.
But for a Gemini, moving on can be easier said than done. We have a tendency to overthink things and second-guess ourselves, especially when it comes to matters of love. This is perfectly captured in the song "Can't Help Falling in Love" by Elvis Presley:
"Wise men say only fools rush in But I can't help falling in love with you Shall I stay? Would it be a sin If I can't help falling in love with you?"
This song shows how love can be both exhilarating and terrifying for a Gemini. We know that rushing into things can lead to disaster, but we also can't help the way we feel. We want to protect ourselves and our hearts, but at the same time, we crave the intimacy and connection that love brings.
So how does a Gemini reconcile these two conflicting emotions? It's a delicate balance, but one song that helps me with this is "Dancing On My Own" by Robyn:
"I'm in the corner, watching you kiss her, oh oh oh I'm right over here, why can't you see me, oh oh oh And I'm giving it my all, but I'm not the girl you're taking home, oh oh oh"
This song speaks to the feeling of being overlooked and undervalued in love. As a Gemini, we often feel like we are in the corner, watching others find love and happiness while we are left behind. But what this song reminds me is that it's okay to dance on my own, to find joy and fulfillment in my own life even if I don't have a partner. It's okay to be vulnerable and open to love, but it's also okay to be happy on my own.
In conclusion, being a Gemini is a complex and emotional experience. We are constantly battling between our head and our heart, between our fears and our desires. But by embracing our vulnerability and learning to find joy in our own lives, we can overcome these struggles and find happiness and fulfillment in love and beyond.
